When you go home, tell them of us and say,
For your tomorrow, we gave our today.– The Kohima Epitaph
Following the advice from the Royal British Legion, we make sure each home has an inclusive Act of Remembrance that is clear and engaging for our staff and residents. For many, this day holds strong memories and traditions and is a time to come together as a community. Those residing with us may have served or know of those who have, with even more living through the aftermath of war including rationing and rebuilding various aspects of society. Consequently, our residents are keenly aware of the sacrifice of previous generations, and we want to do what we can to respectfully honour their memory.

Through the power of music, our residents can be transported back to their fondest memories – we know everyone at Red Homes loves to sing and dance. In honour of Remembrance Day, Red Court had their first live music performance of the year on 10th November with Nataly Arbon singing Remembrance Day songs to the residents. Having live music performed from the 1940s was incredibly special for all involved. Similarly, Red Rose was visited by vocalist Melody Flyte as she sang a range of beautiful songs for Remembrance Day which was occupied by a delicious afternoon tea. Music unlocks memories and encourages residents to sing, dance and enjoy the sounds of years gone by.

Another way to honour their memory is through silent reflection, everyone at Red Homes Healthcare Group observed a two minute silence on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month to reflect and be thankful. This well-known tradition is honoured alongside handmade decorations such as poppies. They can be seen below on the walls of Red Court to serve as a visual reminder and showcase the resident’s hard work.

Finally, local communities often work with our homes and help to find creative ways to honour this special occasion. The Barrowby Brownies in Grantham worked hard decorating Remembrance pebbles and delivered these to residents at Red Court. Using the natural environment, and their creative imagination, the Brownies made incredibly thoughtful remembrance murals by painting messages and poppies onto the pebbles. These were presented as gifts for the residents, and they were displayed alongside a handwritten letter.

Each home facilitated their own series of activities around the theme of Remembrance and honoured those that sacrificed so much for the lives we are fortunate to lead today. This is particularly poignant as last year due to lockdown many celebrations had to change for the safety of our residents whereas this year, we were able to safely honour the fallen with our community by our side.



